Category Archives: Search For Meaning

Forgetting & Remembering: What Can We Do About It?

Why do we remember certain things and forget others? Well research shows us that committing things to memory is far more complex than we imagine but so too is retrieving that information.

According to neurologist Andrew Budson and neuroscientist Elizabeth Kensinger, forgetting is a necessary part of the process and there’s nothing shameful about using memory aids. In their book “Why We Forget and How to Remember Better: the science behind memory” they outline the three different phases that must occur, in order for us to have access to past content. They suggest some useful tips for helping us improve our recall and also say that sleep is critical if we are to have long-term access to our stored information. Other factors like aerobic exercise, eating right, interacting socially and doing crossword puzzles are all good tools that will help keep brains healthy and maintain strong memories.

Recorded 2/28/2023

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Andrew E. Budson, MD is Professor of Neurology at Boston University, Lecturer in Neurology at Harvard Medical School, and Chief of Cognitive & Behavioral Neurology at the Veterans Affairs Boston Healthcare System. His career combines education, research, and clinical care to help those with memory disorders. Budson is also the author of Seven Steps to Managing Your Memory.

Elizabeth A. Kensinger, PhD is now Professor and Chairperson of the Department of Psychology and Neuroscience at Boston College. She directs a research laboratory that investigates many aspects of human memory, including how emotion, stress, and sleep affect memory, and how memory strengths shift as adults age.

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Can Having Good Friends Prolong Your Life?

Research is providing us with more and more proof that having friends is beneficial, if not essential, to good health.  Many people are aware of the detrimental effects that social isolation and loneliness can have on physical and mental wellbeing, but fewer appreciate the advantages of keeping our important relationships close and personal.  University of Oxford data shows that best friends’ physiology comes into synchrony – the rhythm of their hearts, body temperatures and hormonal responses match. Human touch also slows the heartbeat, lowers blood pressure and the stress hormone cortisol. So our interaction with good friends actually keeps us alive and helps us live longer!

Robert Waldinger M.D., Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, directs one of the longest-running studies of adult life and says “deep, meaningful relationships are linked with emotional well-being and physical health.” His new book The Good Life which comes out next year, provides “lessons from the world’s longest scientific study of happiness” and he maintains that friendship is key.  But friendships are both a science and an art.  Joining him in the discussion about how to cultivate, nurture and keep friendships will be Jan Yager, Ph.D sociologist and author of several books on the topic including Friendgevity making and keeping friends who enhance and extend your life”.  

Recorded April 19, 2022.

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THE TRUTH AT THE HEART OF THE LIE: How the Catholic Church lost its soul 

James Carroll‘s deeply personal exploration of what has broken the modern Catholic Church is chronicled in The Truth At The Heart Of The Lie, the most recent in his canon of books critiquing the blessings and limitations of Catholic Christianity.

A former priest himself, Carroll peers into the shadows of deceit and corruption that have shaken his belief system, unearthing the awful truth hidden in the human failings, sins and betrayals of the Church’s hierarchy of bishops and priests. Carroll contends that the Catholic Church and its clergy are at a critical tipping point. Can it and they yet be saved? 

Recorded 10/5/2021

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What are your personal views on the present Catholic Church; has it failed its followers and if so, how?

Can the Catholic Church ever command respect and authority after the slew of international scandals – is it too late to redeem itself? 

James Carroll is author of 21 books, both fiction and non-fiction.  His essays and articles have appeared in The New Yorker, Daedalus, The Daily Beast and other publications. He wrote a Boston Globe op-ed column for 23 years. 


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JESUS AND JOHN WAYNE: How white evangelicals corrupted a faith and fractured a nation

In her unexpected NYT bestseller, Jesus and John Wayne, historian Kristin Du Mez traces how a militant ideal of white Christian manhood has come to pervade evangelical popular culture in America and as a result how the evangelical church is failing many mainstream Christian Americans. 

Joining the conversation are historians Jemar Tisby and Jon Butler. Jemar Tisby is author of The Color of Compromise and How to Fight Racism, published in 2021. He is the founder of The Witness and co-hosts the Pass The Mic podcast. Keep up with his latest musings via his newsletter, Footnotes.

Jon Butler is Professor Emeritus of American Studies, History, and Religious Studies at Yale University. His books include Becoming America and the prize-winning Awash in a Sea of Faith and Huguenots in America.  His new book is God in Gotham:  The Miracle of Religion in Modern Manhattan. 

Recorded 9/20/2021

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Over several decades, Hollywood’s icons of strong men portrayed by actors like John Wayne and Mel Gibson in Braveheart, transformed core biblical teachings such as loving one’s neighbors and enemies, with a militant battle cry.  Mainstream evangelical leaders preached a mutually reinforcing vision of Christian masculinity – of patriarchy and submission, sex and power. This culminated in the hero worship of Trump who embodied their idea of militant masculinity, as protector and warrior. Even if this meant betraying their own moral values. 

Du Mez, an historian at Calvin University, delves into the hypocrisy and disconnect between purported Christian ethics and the rise of sexual abuse, corruption and scandal within the evangelical church.  She argues that the current brand of Christian nationalism which has come to dominate national politics and family values in recent times, is “more John Wayne than Jesus”.

Have you recently left your religion for reasons of disgust and hypocrisy relating to abuse, corruption or misogyny? Is there still an important place for organized religion in America?

HOW GOD WORKS: THE SCIENCE BEHIND THE BENEFITS OF RELIGION

Did you know that people who engage in spiritual practices tend to live longer, happier lives?  What’s more you don’t have to be “religious” to avail yourself of the multiple benefits – many of these rituals work on the mind regardless of belief.

Psychologist David DeSteno discusses some fascinating findings from his latest book How God Works.

Science shows that by taking part in certain religious practices and rituals, regardless of faith – or lack thereof – we improve our emotional and physical wellbeing.

Consider that: 

  • Prayers of gratitude make people more honest and generous, creating a cycle of paying it forward.
  • Buddhist meditation reduces hostility and increases compassion
  • The Jewish practice of sitting shiva reduces the pain of grief
  • The Christian ritual of saying grace before meals increases empathy
  • Shinto rituals around childbirth enhance bonding for mothers and reduce the incidence of postpartum depression

Recorded 9/7/2021

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David DeSteno is a psychologist at Northeastern University where he studies the mind’s foundation for moral behavior.


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